The news of a man who died recently has been circulating every social media platform.
He died after finding out that his 2 children belongs to the MD of a bank where his wife works.
He and his wife have been married for few years now, only for him to discover that his teenage children belong to another man……
I had a robust conversation with certain people here on the street of Facebook and I was stunned by their submissions.
One said, “I have always told people that this thing called Marriage is a big scam, it’s not as fantastic as people make it look”
Another said, “Some ladies are just heartless, how can she sleep at night knowing she has been living in deceit and betrayal”
Another said, “Marriage is not compulsory, I would rather stay single & have a baby mama then walk down the aisle with any woman”
Personally, I find this so sad and worrisome so read about people’s perception about marriage.
I can imagine the trauma the man went through before his demise. The lady’s action is not excusable.
I have seen people make different posts after the news circulated the internet but the truth is so many of us are actually at the verge of doing the same thing.
You are in a relationship with a guy but you still effortlessly cheat on him with other guys……
You profess love to a lady but you have so many sex partners…..
Deep down in your heart you know you cannot marry her, but you cannot let her go before you don’t want to lose the SEX.
You don’t love him enough to marry him but you cannot end the relationship because you still need his financial assistance.
I believe at some point in their relationship she knew she cannot stay committed to their vows, YET, she stayed in marriage.
I have spoken to some ladies who opened up to me about how they have other sexual partners but still decided to walk down the aisle with a different man….
It is unforgivable to stay in a relationship with someone, profess love to them, walk down the aisle with them, YET, cheat on them.
If you cannot stay loyal and committed to that partner, please walk away and save them from emotional torture…….
Marriage is designed to be a beautiful EXPERIENCE not a PRISON…….
If you have any form of doubt about your partner, please don’t go ahead with the marriage……….
If you still believe you need to taste different ladies so as to satisfy your sexual urger, Please don’t put any lady into anguish and pain (Marriage is not for you)…..
Be intentional about your marital decisions….
Marriage can either MAKE you or DESTROY you……
Be careful about who you want to go on that journey with…..